
Announcing the winner of this book giveaway: Megan from Exile in Kidville.
A couple of weeks ago I mentioned here that the author Darin Strauss was doing a bit of high-profile book touring. You have to love this next part. He noticed what I said and he sent me his book, More Than It Hurts You. I'm offering it as a giveaway this week, as I like to do, and here's why you should ask for it.
I thought it was just a few years ago, but turns out it was more like six (!), that I read something that left me weak and weepy to the point of exhaustion. It wasn't as though I loved the book, or even liked it. Some of my very smart and well-read friends disagreed, but I thought the author Jonathan Franzen, in The Corrections, had nailed the whole of our unsayable lives. The ignorance and cynicism, the glib cleverness, the buried sorrow and habitual self-deception, and at the barren bottom of all our failings, the love. Still, the love.
More Than It Hurts You is that kind of ride. An ambitious and frantic story about how none of us – not one of us – is honest or fair or true or what we appear, even to ourselves, to be. It's a story about the strivings of love, marriage and motherhood, but I don't read stories for the stories. I read to be awed and lost and left to fend for myself on a far shore. I only have so much time, you see, and I don't want to finish a book in the same place I started.
I've heard it called "a beach read." This is no beach read. Oh sure you could read it on the beach, and when you finished, you would sit and stare a long time at the convulsing waves, at the mysteries that combine and divide us. It is a difficult book, an uncomfortable reveal. It cuts close, and it hurts. In a very safe way.
I recommend it. Because good work, and the writers who enslave themselves to it, are so blasted hard to find. When they find you, it makes things better.
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Leave a comment anytime before next Friday, July 25 to enter.
7.18.2008
The winner: Show me where it hurts
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76 comments:
the title alone has me hooked. sign me up. and good luck with your reading today!
It is dark and rainy here in Chicago. I am going to get on the treadmill and finish your book. Then off to get Mr. Strauss'! Thanks for the heads up!
hmmm...i'm scared i just might win!:)
Sounds like an interesting book, sign me up!
would love to win it.
I remember reading The Corrections. Oh, I remember.
For the first time in a long while, I'm reading again -- this time, fiction (which is rare for me). A Guatemalan friend recommended Marcela Serrano's Antigua: And My Life Before. It's a book about the crossroads women come to time and again when they try to reconcile motherhood with personal dreams and ambitions, and how divergent their paths are from men. (In a way it reminds me a little of The Golden Notebook by Doris Lessing.) I have been reading it during nearly all free moments since Thursday. The book you're giving away sounds tantalizing.
I want it. I think. Not sure. But isn't it great that he sent it to you? You're right. I love that.
Sounds like my kind of medicine.
Sounds like a good read...i could use one as I was just lamenting this very morning that I haven't read a really really good fiction book since The Corrections...
Me me me!
Of the two you mentioned, which would you recommend one read first?
Karen,
This book has been on my "to-read" list for a couple of weeks now! More serendipity, I am sure!
Hugs,
Debbie
Kaishu, just as you suspect, read which ever one appears in front of you first.
So many on my list I don't know what I'll do with all of them - but this one sounds like a "must" if there is any such thing.
Please put my name in the pot.
I didn't sign up for the other because I don't have a blog on which to pass on the review as requested, but you and Jen Lemen and Jen Lee and Brene Brown and the other writers who are using your blogs to change the world are an inspiring example. Maybe someday soon....
Note to all entrants: no blog required; just be sure you either leave your email address in your message or send to me directly at kmiller[at]turningwords[dot] com or I won't be able to consider you for the drawing. And I really want to consider everyone who takes the time to read and respond. Give luck a chance!
Ok, maybe I'm meant to read this book... please put my name in the hat.
Thank you,
Kim
Pick me!
Oooo...hope it's me...
hi
i would really love to win that book. I need a book, I have been browsing my shelves, picking things up and putting them down. I haven' t been able to decide what to read. but I have The Corrections on my shelf, so that is definitely my next. Although I don't know if it is smart to be playing 2 lotteries this week...
enter me, enter me, enter me.
feels all I'm doing is reading these days.
and whether I "win" this one or not, its going on the list.
Sounds like just my thing.
Yes, sign me up, please.
(elsbrenninkmeijer@gmail.com)
It might just be my lucky week, since it is my birthday Thursday
;-).
Thank you.
I need some catharsis - I'll cross my fingers and hope against reason.
Please sign me up, too. ABNewc@gmail.com
sounds scary good...
Thanks for having the contest!
Trenda
t.plunkett@yahoo.com
This sounds like a very interesting read. I love stories that make you think and ponder on your own life instead of books about "fluff".
Thanks for the great giveaway.
Kimberly
HunnyV "at" Optonline "dot" net
It sounds like such a great book. I'm constantly looking for books that provide an oppurtunity to think about who we really are.
jeepcutie82 at msn dot com
It sounds like such a great book. I'm constantly looking for books that provide an oppurtunity to think about who we really are.
jeepcutie82 at msn dot com
Wonderful giveaway.
gkstratos@ yahoo.com
Sound Great, I prefer more serious reading!
Wow you really made this sound like a must read book! Can't wait - thanks for the giveaway! afdr3d@umkc.edu
This sounds like the first book worth reading . . . since yours!
Going to need to look this up and put it on my amazon wishlist. Well, hopefully I will win it here first!
This sounds very intriguing! Thanks for sharing!
I'd love a hand to a deeper place. Looking forward to reading this book.
I loved your reasons for reading...very thought provoking.
This book sounds good to me!
Greetings! I need to be found! To be made uncomfortable is an uneasy feeling, but if they are trying to help me find myself, than I understand! It definitely doesn't sound like a "beach" read to me, either. I have a degree in Psychology and books like this one fascinate me. Please enter me in your book drawing contest. I appreciate it! Many thanks, Cindi
jchoppes[at]hotmail[dot]com
I'd love to win this book! I need a new book to keep my mind off of things right now.
Interesting book! I'd love to read it! Thank you for the chance to win!
bunnybox9 at gmail . com
I would love to read this book, thanks for the opportunity.
hetz-junk(at)hotmail(dot)com
I'm glad to have found your blog. This looks like a great book!
I could use a book that hurts, safely! Enter me, too!
Still at the beach,
Blue
i'd love to explore that...I think. :)
It sounds very much like the sort of thing I'm craving right now - emotional outpourings are cathartic, but it's so much better when they stem from the ability to relate, rather than from the hopeless place where relating is impossible. Thank you for the recommendation!
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I would love to read this one for myself - sounds very thought provoking!
I think the author is right. I think most of us tell ourselves little lies to make difficult or impossible situations more bearable. Please enter me in the giveaway.
pintolinda (at) hotmail (dot) com
Sign me up please! It sounds very interesting.
bertssweeps(at)comcast(dot)net
sound like a great book to read
Not quite what I was expecting from the title - but it sounds pretty interesting!
Great giveaway, thanks so much!
I (heart) to read new authors and appriciate the chance to get turned on to Darin Strauss.
I loved The Corrections...
i've been wanting to comment for a long time and haven't until now. thanks for sharing... and for sharing your freebies. marg
Marg, make sure you send me a way to reach you if you win. Thanks, KMM
sounds like exactly the kind of book I need to read, being that I am in a place of discovering all the ways I am different than I recently appeared...
Sounds like a good one. Thanks, kristie2 (at) comcast.net
I'm always up for a new book!
good books are hard to find. here's crossing my fingers.
What a great read.
Your review has intrigued me. Hop I get lucky.
Very interesting title and I would love to read this intriguing book.
me, me, pick me!
I'm always looking for books that pry me open a little bit more.
Your review got me hooked, I would love to be entered for this book.
Book sounds great to me and I would love to read it. Please count me in.
I love a good book for its power to transport me. Unfortunately, they all too often transport me to the land of little sleep, as night time is almost the only time I won't be interrupted. Hung over the next day from a good story and no sleep, I still usually find it worthwhile.
I just read the summary and reviews at Amazon. Wow. Sounds like an incredible and powerful journey. Sign me up!
This book sounds very intriguing; I would love to win it:)
jceko77@yahoo.com
I would love to win it!!!
Eileen-Lilly(at)hotmail(dot)com
I'm a little scared, but my curiosity is getting the best of me! Please enter me.
I love books. i would love to try this book! thanks!
mesargent813@yahoo.com
please enter me :)
I love to read these kind of books.
Those where you have to look at
yourself and ask is that me?
Hard to read at first,but after
it feels great.Please enter me
and thanks.
CharlieGurl57@aol.com
Sounds like a great read!
jasonncaryn at yahoo dot com
The book arrived a couple of days ago. Thanks again, Karen.
--megan
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