Him: Are you really going to quit?
Me: It's just that in the face of this pain, the only thing that makes me keep going right now is ego.
Him: Isn't that true of everything?
Me: No, when I do what needs to be done, that's not ego. I would run 16 miles to go get help if the house was on fire. But when what keeps me going is pride, or shame, or obligation, or obstinance, or the idea that I'm accomplishing something or overcoming something or the fear of letting someone down, that's ego.
Him: (dejected) I just thought it was a pretty neat thing for you to do.
Me: Like that.